Different Behaviours Create Different Outcomes - Make Ego work for You

It would be impossible to count the number of timesDifferent Behaviours creating Different Outcomes…
a day comments are made about one ego orA new warehouse management process is about to
another. There’s no denying every one has aundergo the final stages of testing prior to being
sense of self; it could be high or low self-esteem, orrolled out across all European operations and, while
an inflated or minimized sense of one’s ownyou’ve been praising everyone for their efforts
self-importance. Ego can be extremely constructiveto encourage a last push for the final delivery, a
with increased self-esteem driving us forward tomajor problem has occurred. The RF Scanners
achieve better, faster, more. It can also be negativepurchased months ago will not work with the
and downright destructive particularly whensoftware and testing has ground to halt. What
one’s own level of self-importance no longerhappens next?
exudes a natural level of confidence but rather isWhen the behaviour of Ego is triggered this is what
perceived by others as complete and utterusually happens. Questions are asked for information
arrogance.to be gathered but the responses are paid lip-service
An inflated sense of self-importance is neitherbecause at the same time instructions are issued on
collaborative nor adaptive. It already knows whatwhat to do. There is likely to be escalation without
needs to be done and how to go about doing it.qualified understanding, demands on the Vendor for
There is no room for other ideas, opinions or inputimmediate resolution, and various other actions that
even if they’ve been actively asked for.will be viewed as self-protection. The result is
Can this behaviour deliver the results? Sure,normally one of confusion, annoyance, long hours,
eventually and usually by default rather than bylost time and demotivation.
design. Often though it is after a long drawn-outWhen a different behaviour is triggered there’s
process full of issues, disruption, lost time androom to collaborate. Where the possibility to adapt
increased costs. All things that could with a bit ofswiftly to the noise pollution and frustration exists
effort and some different behaviour, quite easilyand acts as a calming influence to all. Quick
have been avoided. Interestingly enough, Egoinformation gathering conversations are organised to
generally only cares that delivery has happened. Itget the information necessary for sufficient problem
has little or no awareness of the carnage and angerdefinition and clear communication across the
(yes anger) it has left in its wake. If there is anyorganisation. Collaboration ensures people feel valued
spec of awareness Ego more often than not movesand are willing to participate. Short-term contingencies
directly into a blame culture pointing fingers as otherswith sensible long-serving resolutions are organised
must surely be at fault. Does this behaviour makeappropriately. The result is normally one where those
those involved excited and motivated about workinginvolved clearly understand the impact, are focused
with Ego again? (nanosecond pause for thought…)and willing to do whatever is necessary.
Nope! Be aware the pointing finger - when one fingerThrough collaboration and adaptation the decision
is pointing out there are 3 pointing back!maker can ask questions that dig below the surface,
We all see and experience this type of behaviour atinvolve the obvious people along with those less
work, in sport, in the community and in politics. If youobvious with an equally valuable contribution to make,
say ‘I haven’t’ then you’re likely toand gather the information necessary for an
be one of 3 things:appropriate yet quick resolution.
- telling a toddy-hopper (fib)Note the reference to an ‘appropriate’
- your Ego's talking; orresolution and not the ‘right’ one. Why?
- you’re very lucky!Because there is no right or wrong, there is only
 what is most appropriate at a given point in time with
So, let’s see how, when Ego is left outside, athe current information available, the variables at play
different behaviour can occur and different outcomesand what is known or projected at that moment
are realised.about the future.